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my father was a minister so i grew up in church. i am a musician that has been playing for years and now have taken a job as a music minister. i have not gone to church in a couple of years and have been living with my boyfriend that is also a musician. my boyfriend was also hired to play for this church.
the church just assumed that we are married.
i want to get completely fully back into church and wish to live a christian life. i am now under conviction regarding fornication and told my boyfriend that i can no longer sleep with him unmarried. he really wants to marry me, however i cannot marry him because we have been working through some of his trust issues and baggage from a past relationship. he told me he was not under conviction like i am and if we could not continue to have sex, then the relationship is over. i asked him last saturday night in advance to give me space sunday morning to get in the right frame of mind for church and instead, he walked around completely naked until it was time to leave. i felt like this was uncalled for and that it showed a lack of respect for me. when i told him about it, he just said, he didn't really think about it like that.. he just felt like doing it.
i told him if he moved out and we worked on our relationship then we could eventually get married, however he said if he leaves, he will never come back. please give me some advice.. i do love this man but i cannot marry him right now with the issues that he has.
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From: Vivianne
you are still so young. i understand you love this guy but getting back on track with god is number one. stay away from this guy, pray and read the bible, ask god for guidance and have faith. once you've giving god first place in your life he will bless you in everything that you do. he wil send the right kind off people around.
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