my husband is doing something that is wrong to his sister. he is keeping our kids away from her. she has been awesome to us and especially to our children. she practically raised my 5 years old (he my adopted). | |
he is believing lies that his "mentally unstable" mother is making up. family is important to me. he isnt a religous man. i am confused. i know its god, husband, children..but i what do i do when i see what he is doing is wrong? it is hurting my children as well.
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From: FLORENCE
well, ia have to say that you shoould pray first to god. in that prayer ask god to guide your words so that he may get an understanding . don't curse,overtalk him out. it's not about religion, i'm going to pray also about the situation. you're right family is important and even if somesone is doing wrong we are not to just turn our backson them, who are we to judge, and family at that. so pray and i will also. believe in what you pray
From: Jeff
hmm.. that is tough. first off i would ask what proof you have of his mother being "mentally unstable" or of her making things up, but since i don't have that luxury i will assume you are correct. i guess first off you have to make him realize that it doesn't have to be his mother or his sister, that is their beef, let him know that you love him but you are a christian and you believe in forgiveness for all things, and that even if his sister did do something terrible she should be forgiven, and that your children just want to see their aunt. some people are hard to get through to, but pray on it, and hopefully you can get through to him.
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