how can i change my relationship to a christian relationship? | |
me and my boyfriend are going through a tough time because i know we have a need for change but he wont change. iv prayed and done all i can possibly do but it keeps getting worse. he thinks its a phase im going through, and he thinks im trying to blame all our problems on him. when i know i do my fair share. what do i do, how should i talk to him and let him really know how i feel?
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From: Jen
you're not specific enough on what he won't change...is he abusive? does he do drugs? does he cheat on you? if he's doing these things or whatever it is that is destroying the relationship & he is unwilling to change, then you may consider ending the relationship. he has a choice to better himself & he's not doing it.
why keep dragging yourself...life's too short. perhaps if you feel prayer hasn't been answered, it may be that god is not going against your boyfriend's will because he's not willing to change & god wants you to be free of this relationship that is causing you misery. i suggest to become part of a christian singles group to meet other christians & enjoy group activities together & focus on god rather than your boyfriend. surround yourself w/caring people & friends. if you don't have many friends, becoming part of a church christian group can bring you some friends.
From: Jen
also, i recommend reading dr. barbara de angelis' book, "are you the one for me". it's really great & practical. if i had read it a long time ago, it would've spared me a lot of heartache from my past relationships & marriage.
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