when is marriage enought for a believer sometime in life we pick our partner but they are not mature in jesus christ and just depress and unhappy with the relationship won;t prayer with wife or get help spiritual or physicially. when your expectation is crush over and over again in 20 years marraige and they just walk out leave again because they can;t handle life that they cause on there self . when is it enought?
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From: Jen
i would suggest to have a heart-to-heart talk w/your spouse and say that christian marriage counseling is in order, and if he/she doesn't participate it means they are not willing to work on saving the marriage. if that happens, i suggest you go to christian counseling on your own because "in a multitude of counselors, there is safety." pray & fast about it, too. perhaps there is something hidden that hasn't been brought to light yet that is also destroying the marriage. if there needs to be a temporary separation, then try it with the understanding that your spouse will also reciprocate on working w/the marriage. if your spouse decides to stay away & not come back, then i feel that divorce might be ok, based on what 1corinthians says that if an unbeliever departs, let him depart (the believer is not in bondage); but if he stays, let him stay.) i'm paraphrasing it here. but do pray & fast...and see what happens...
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