why am i constantly in two-minds over this relationship? | |
i have been dating a guy for about 5 months now. throughout this time i have been in two-minds about whether he is the right man for me to marry. he is a nice guy, we get along well, but he isn't as spiritually mature as i am - i think he has back slided somewhat. i remember feeling very convicted in the beginning of the relationship, particularly in response to sermon's i had heard about making right choices and about doing god's will, as though god wanted me to break of the relationship - however i tried to put it out of my mind. i often have feelings of uneasiness about the relationship, yet the times when i have felt closest to god, such as in prayer or worship i have not felt as though god was telling me to break up with this guy. i received a word of prophesy a few weeks ago from a well-known preacher - 'you don't have to be broken, god has a good plan for your life' - with no reference to the uneasiness i have felt regarding my boyfriend. i feel like i am hearing a million voices full of mixed-messages. i really do not want to end the relationship with this guy, i feel like i can be a good spiritual influence. however, i hope that my strong desire to stay with him is not clouding my judgment in terms of hearing god's voice. i am tired of being in torment about this - how can i make a decision about this relationship and stay firm once i've made it?
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